Positive answers to the "Why can't I succeed?" question
Hello my friend
Some of the most common questions we get on a daily basis
are phrased something like these...
- I just can't control my urges... Am I stupid?
- Why do I get nervous to the point I have to throw up?
- Even though I won't make any money unless I pick up the
phone, why can't I get myself to do it.
- I have all this stuff to do on my list, why won't I do
it... or, what should I do first?
- I've read dozens of books on positive thinking,
motivation, confidence, and others that deal
specifically with the area I want to succeed in...
why can't I follow the advice?
- I've been in therapy, counseling, talked with friends,
etc., but I'm still lost. Why?
- I'm about to lose my marriage. Why can't I change enough
to save it?
There are a number of variations to these questions...
The major theme is a frustration with knowing what you
want to do and how you want to be, but not being able to
get yourself to do it... or not being able to feel
comfortable enough to get through certain types of
situations.
The thing is, you can't keep advice from a book, therapy
session or seminar in your working mind for long before
your mind gets flooded with the concerns and decisions of
the moment... and you go on auto-pilot... you act as you
always have without having to think.
You "forget" to do what you were told to do.
To make habit changes and to change the way you feel, you
would have to read the same book constantly (provided it is
helpful advice), meaning every day. And even then, you'd
be reading a lot of filler text that would waste hours and
days and weeks and months.
Yes, therapy, counseling, friends and family can be
incredibly useful... life saving.
But 1-3 hours a week where the bulk of it is spent
complaining about what someone did or said to you... or in
whining about what you did to someone else and beating
yourself up with guilt, only to have a few minutes of
constructive advice is not very helpful. It is definitely
not FAST change.
Life IS fast.
Major split-second decisions need to be made. Many
interruptions and temptations come at you every hour.
Things need to get done quickly and correctly. Time stops
for no one.
So taking weeks and months and years to get to the root of
your limitations doesn't make sense. It doesn't fit in
with the pace of life.
That is why most people give up on "self-help" efforts too
soon... impatience.
There are only 11 main reasons for all failures.
There are many more reasons, actually, but all the other
ones happen because of these main 11.
The only things that stop you:
The 11 main reasons for all failure
1) Failures, mistakes, setbacks, delays, criticism
negatively affect self-image... creates image of failure in
specific life area
2) Failures, mistakes, setbacks, delays, criticisms have
only or mostly negative meanings
3) Feeling no responsibility for negative outcomes/setbacks
4) Self-doubt - Feeling/believing "I can't" - lack of faith
5) Love for/Attraction to people, places, things, actions
that get in the way of positive goals/outcomes
6) Dislike/repulsion to tasks, people & places that
support help you achieve positive goals/outcomes
7) Worry: Focusing on what's not perfect/What "could" go
wrong
8) Blowing up the size/difficulty of goal oriented
tasks/decisions
9) Blowing up mistakes, setbacks & delays, criticisms
(real or imagined)
10) Disaster thinking - Imagining the worst outcomes/effects
11) Stress reactions in the body - destroys the ability of
your "vessel" to accomplish your desired outcomes
These patterns are common to us all in areas where we are
not good at something and not great at something.
If you have not mastered a set of actions, look to these
11 and you will see why.
Study this list...
As you ponder each one, you will grow to understand the
limitations of many kinds of self-help in its ability to
shrink the influence of these automatic, conditioned ways
of thinking and acting.
You will see that these patterns are automatic.
They are ways of "being" that we learn throughout our lives.
Most of these patterns are NOT built into us from birth,
at least not in every area of life.
They are learned.
Even #11 can be unlearned.
Each Accelerated Success Conditioning program addresses
all 11 core failure patterns and their implications...
...this means that if, let's say , you have the habit of
continually imagining negative outcomes (worrying) in a
specific area of life, the program(s) we have that address
that subject gives you new belief, thought and attitude
patterns that directly oppose and work to obliterate the
images, sounds and feelings of failure. Through the
audible statements, each programs but also teaches and
conditions you with rich images, sounds and feelings of
success.
This two-pronged process of clearing/releasing the old and
installing the new is a remarkably effective way of easily
creating lightning fast, emotional and behavioral changes
so you can get the results you want that last... with
little chance of reverting back to old ways.
So whenever you are upset/frustrated with something,
and/or can't get yourself to do what you want to do as well
as you want to do it, look to these 11 reasons as the
foundation to all the other problematic emotions and
behaviors you want to change.
Love,
Mike
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