December 6, 2007
Comparing yourself to others is over
Hello my friend:
I just spent the last hour listening to the entire first
half of Conquering Social Anxiety and reading the
statements at the same time.
Talk about uplifting.
And as it always does, it reminded me of all the many
disempowering, deflating beliefs that people with social
anxiety have.
We categorized them all.
One category that is particularly powerful in a negative
sense is the habit of comparing yourself to others.
This is incredibly harmful because no matter who you are
with or who you are thinking about, it is possible to come
up with a dozen things where they are "superior to" or
"better than" you in some way.
I mean, everyone has their strengths, right?
What a common thing for people to do is to focus on OTHER
people's strengths while at the same time thinking about
THEIR OWN weaknesses, where they are not as good in some
way as the person or people they are "comparing" themselves
to.
This is a recipe for social anxiety.
In our newest program, Conquering Social Anxiety, we use
our familiar Accelerated Success Conditioning method to
literally condition out hundreds of problem beliefs,
thoughts, attitudes and emotional patterns while
conditioning in the most empowering, positive mental
patterns found only in the most gregarious, socially
comfortable and capable people in the world.
Have you ever wondered why you've knocked someone else
down in public, criticizing them unfairly?
Ever wonder why you don't like someone almost instantly
for no apparent reason, only to find later that you were
wrong about them (or worse, never change your negative
opinion, even when everyone else likes that person)?
What about overemphasizing your own accomplishments a
little too much -- or maybe a LOT too much?
Have you ever noticed these things in yourself or others?
That's social anxiety...
Trying to knock others down in order to build yourself up.
A primary thing that people who are completely and totally
at ease in any social setting do however is to never look
at someone else's strengths and feel less because of it...
No, instead they are awed and admire others for their
positive traits, never feeling bad about themselves because
of it.
Because they know that no one's perfect.
So the most socially comfortable people have a way of
keeping that in mind always.
That is what Conquering Social Anxiety Now does,
among other things... help you to "learn" deeply and
completely that you are just fine.
You don't need to compare yourself to others.
No one is perfect.
They have their strengths.
You have yours.
The secret to getting rid of social anxiety and to gain
total comfort is to be OK not being perfect.
Because you will never be.
The secret is to be OK with who you are.
You can do it.
And Conquering Social Anxiety Now can help you.
I guarantee it.
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Love,
Mike
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